This post is a response to an anonymous question I received two days ago through our Have a Question page. This person asks:
If marriage is not the same today as it was in the bible, are the guidelines for sex still in marriage still the same? [sic]
As is usually the case, I wish I could respond and ask more questions in return to clarify the question, but as it is anonymous, I cannot. So, I’ll proceed with what we have.
As I mentioned in my last post, this month, the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association is hosting a challenge to it’s members: four topics to write about during the month of October. I got my Words of Wisdom from Family in a bit late, but I did get it done. So, we’ll see if I can get this one in on time. This week’s topic is “Words and wisdom from the Bible”.
I’ve been keeping a secret from you. It wasn’t intentional…it just hasn’t really come up. But we’re at about the half-way mark now, and if I don’t say anything…it’s going to start getting awkward I think. We’re having another baby boy! For those who aren’t keeping count, this is #5. I know, I know, we’re insane by cultural standards. We’re way over our 2.1 quota, but we take Genesis 1:28 seriously…plus…we like sex…and as I’ve said before, I have an irrational fear of permanent birth control measures. As such, the next few months may be a little bit more “pregnancy and birthing” themed than usual…because…well…it’s our blog, and that’s what we’re going through, and I think we may have a few things we can share, and I’m curious about other people’s experiences, so that means surveys about pregnancies most likely.
Having survived four previous pregnancies and planning to survive this (last?) one with our marriage not only intact, but still growing, I thought I’d share something I’ve learned.
This month, the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association, of which I am a member, is hosting a challenge to bloggers. 4 topics to write about during the month of October. Unfortunately, I found out about it a little late, so I’m a bit delayed, but, nevertheless, I’m going to participate. This first topic is “Words and Wisdom From Family”.
Every survey we run, I get a certain question in the comments. It comes in different ways. How can I orgasm, how can I get my wife to orgasm, why can’t I orgasm, what do other wives do to orgasm, what do husbands do to their their wives to orgasm, and many other permutations. So, I thought I’d run a survey just to answer the question. I also spent some time picking up a new skill that I hope will help people assimilate the data better. I would love to know what you think. Anyways, on to our very first SexWithinMarriage.com Infographic! Continue reading
While this survey is specifically designed to find answers for women, I’ve designed the survey so that husbands can answer the questions too.
I get a few people every month asking how they can orgasm, if they are women, or, if they are men, how to help their wife achieve orgasm. So, since I only have one wife, I am asking for your assistance in this. While I have some theoretical knowledge that may help, I think it would be wise to get some practical experience from other wives and husbands. Thank you in advance for your data.