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SexWithinMarriage Logo An update on what’s going on at SWM - Well, we’ve been busy at  I know, it doesn’t always look like it, because I haven’t been writing as many posts, and I’m sorry for that. I thought I’d write a quick post just to let you know what’s going on, because, honestly, I’m terrible as self-promotion, so I tend to just do stuff and […]

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National Orgasm Day 46 Facts about orgasms for National Orgasm Day - Well, it’s National Orgasm Day in the US, and I thought we’d help them celebrate by sharing some facts about orgasm.  Just for fun.  Then you can go and celebrate however you wish.
Adult Nursing Relationship Adult Nursing Relationships - I’ve been putting off this post for a long time, but after writing about why men are breast obsessed, it seemed an opportune time to bring it up.  So, today we’re going to talk about Adult Nursing Relationships, also known as ANRs, and more specifically, a husband nursing from his wife. One reason I’ve put it […]
Why are men obsessed with breasts Why are men obsessed with breasts? - This week Christina asked me why I act differently when she’s changing, particularly when she’s topless.  I’m sure most wives at some point wonder, why it is that their husbands are so obsessed with their breasts.  I know for myself, if my wife’s shirt and bra comes off, even if it’s in a non-sexual context, […]
Are you interested in a group text chat hosted by - We’re always trying to come up with new ways to serve our community.  Recently I’ve been thinking about hosting a group chat session, and thought I’d put up this survey to gauge interest.  If enough people want it, we’ll run a few and see how it goes. So, fill out the very short survey below […]
Wedding Vows Are you willing to hold people accountable to their vows? - I was talking with a friend this week about a variety of subjects, and in the course of our discussing, I said that I think we, as Christians, are failing in our duties to our fellow believers, particularly when it comes to marriages. We, in the marriage blogging community, often complain that marriage isn’t taught […]

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Anonymous Question Anonymous Question: Why does my low-drive spouse masturbate? - I received an anonymous email last night: How is it that my husband is the lower drive spouse and yet occasionally masturbates without me? He always regrets it and admits it to me afterwards, yet it still happens about once a month. We have sex less than once a week – maybe 3 times a […]

Anonymous Question: My wife wants to be gagged - Every so often, I get an anonymous question from a reader, and sometimes I write a post (like Should Christians mix alcohol and sex?) in response.  Sometimes I conduct a survey, then write a post in response (like Does my husband still find me attractive).  Sometimes the question has already been answered, and then I […]

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