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Is sex work Is sex work? - Is sex work for you?  What about your spouse?  Do you know?  Now, for me, the answer is a hands down “No”.  I mean, I work hard during sex, and my muscles get tired, I get sweaty and I’m very focused … but I would never call it work.  I wouldn’t even call it pleasurable […]

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Latest Anonymous Question

Anonymous Question Do men like nipple play? - Well, it’s the end of another week, and so there’s just enough time for one more question.  I received this one yesterday from our anonymous Have A Question page: My question is about nipple play. I am a 70+ male, a new reader and subscriber to this blog. Recently, during a snuggling session my wife […]

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Latest Podcast Episode

Sex Within Marriage Podcast Image for Posts SWM026: Last Minute Father’s Day Gift Ideas - Father’s Day is this Sunday, and I thought we’d share some last-minute Father’s Day gifts for those wives who listen to the podcast.  We’ve got some free options, some not-so-free options and some options that are a bit of an investment, but all of them you can manage to pull off even the day before […]

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Latest Marriage Challenge

A Year of Marriage Challenges - Week 44 - Send a sexy text to your spouse Week 44 – Send a sexy text to your spouse - It’s the beginning of a new week, and so we have another marriage challenge for you. This week, I challenge you to send your spouse a sexy text.  If they respond, keep going. Why? Because it’s a good way to get your spouse (or yourself) geared up for sex earlier in the day so they’re […]

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The blog is fantastic. I have no doubt that many many Christians struggle with the issue of sex because of it being taboo in the church. I think you are doing a MASSIVE for the body of Christ.  I'm serious, the things you discuss are just amazing. I love reading the comments in response. Keep up the awesome work.
Bless you and your family
Last weekend, I decided I was going to have a talk and bring up some of the sexual things, etc. well, it went horribly and we ended up in a big fight. However, the end result has been positive. She let me know some things that have been bothering her (I recognized them as well) and this week I have tried to do more of the things she mentioned. Last night we had sex for the first time in about 3 weeks and it was great. We still have problems in the bedroom and other parts of our relationship to ...

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Cried myself to sleep many many nights. Until I stumbled across Jay Dee's site. His story actually got through to my husband about how it feels to be refused. At first he when I would send Jay's posts to his email he didn't want any part of it. At some point it got through and he has been truly making a huge effort. We are still working on things and have several issues to sort out. But my life has improved a million times.

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...we listened to the Podcast with you on "What sex means to a man" and your insight has really brought change to our relationship ... Your explanation that sex is really the main way a man feels loved and appreciated really resonated with both of us. In the last few weeks we have made intimacy, sexual, and otherwise a much greater priority in our marriage and not only has our sex life gone to a new level, but our entire marriage has! Thank you for sharing your insight with others.

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Thank you for all you do it comes from the heart and it shows. You have helped me in my marriage more than anyone I know other than Jesus. Keep up the great work.
Your website has really ministered to my marriage.
Thanks for continuing to tackle the more challenging/least discussed topics on sex. Our marriage has benefited from simply having a starting point for conversations, so thank you.
Thank you so much for your kind words and support! I started feeling better as soon as I started writing my thoughts, and feeling better yet reading your reply.
My wife and I both read your blog on a regular basis and often discuss your posts together – it’s a real help to our marriage.
Miss Sunshine
Thank you. Somehow you’ve made this very scary topic seem less scary. … You really are helpful, and I just can’t thank you enough. I don’t even know you, but deep down, I just have an overwhelming sense of appreciation and gratitude.

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