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How to talk to a refuser

The other day on our way home from a Christmas party we were talking and Jay was telling me he doesn’t know what to say or how to answer people’s comments and emails when they say that they are being refused and are

Reasons Not To Have Sex Survey Results

This was a simple little survey that I created, originally to answer a simple question:  do husbands and wife’s agree on whether or not the choice to not have sex on a given night is mutual.  This question was raised due to a

Is There A Good Way To Tell Your Husband “No Sex Tonight”?

OK men, I’m going to address you a bit further down, but this part is for the ladies: Short answer: No.  I don’t mean “tell him “NO””.  I mean, there is no good way to tell your husband “No Sex Tonight”.  Here’s why:

Do You Believe Couples Go Through Sexual Seasons In Their Relationship?

This is the seventh post in the 1/2 Marathon being orchestrated by the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association.  I have a bunch of questions left from the A Males Perspective teleconference I spoke at last week.  As such, I’ll be using this marathon to answer some of the questions

Why Do You Think Men Think About Sex More Than Women?

This is the second post in the 1/2 Marathon being orchestrated by the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association.  I have a bunch of questions left from the A Males Perspective teleconference I spoke at last week.  As such, I’ll be using this marathon to answer some of the questions

Sexual Frequency: Why I Don’t Worry Anymore

For the first 8 or so years of my marriage, a constant argument was the frequency of sex.  This seems to be a common theme with many couples.  At least the ones who are willing to talk about it.  In fact, I’m not