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Hot and Monogamous, just as God intended


breastfeedingOK, this is largely a rant, so hang on.

We’re currently enjoying our fourth newborn.  All our children have been breastfed, and this one is no different.  Let me start by saying that I 100% agree with breastfeeding children.  I think it’s the healthiest thing for them and I would never suggest anything else except in extreme cases.  And nothing that follows changes that belief one iota.

That said, here’s what I hate about it (in no particular order):

I don’t get to play with them anymore

My wife’s breasts used to be mine.  They were for me alone.  It was my right to kiss them, lick them, suck them, bite them, tweak them, rub them, hold them, whatever.  So long as it gave my wife pleasure, they were mine to enjoy.  Sometimes even if it did nothing for her, they were still mine to enjoy.

The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.

1 Corinthians 7:4

Now I never get to touch them. Continue reading

How Pregnancy Affects Sex

We recently welcomed our fourth child into our family and I thought I’d write a bit to reflect what’s going on.  Specifically how pregnancy and after the birth affect sex from the male perspective.

Now, I know this may upset some of the women who read this, because pregnancy is typically all about the women.  I can’t speak for that side, so I’m going to post on behalf of the men, myself in particular.  I want to let people know about the struggles involved for the husband.  Why?  Because often we get overlooked during this time, and frankly, it’s dangerous to do so.

Note: I’m basing this post on my experiences, so there will be exceptions.  But I think what’s happening in our household is fairly common. Continue reading

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