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Anonymous Question Anonymous Question: What do you think about breath play (erotic asphyxiation)? - Here’s another question I received through our Have A Question page for those who have questions but want to ask them anonymously. This is more a question of curiosity.  What do you think about breath play? science, appropriateness etc…

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Is it a sin to lust after your wife? - I r received this through our Have A Question page where readers submit anonymous questions: Is it a sin to lust after your wife.  The Bible says to not covet your neighbors wife.   But is it wrong to covet your own wife.   to look longingly at her thighs or ass etc… thanks Kevin Now, I’ve […]
SexWithinMarriage Logo An update on what’s going on at SWM - Well, we’ve been busy at SexWithinMarriage.com.  I know, it doesn’t always look like it, because I haven’t been writing as many posts, and I’m sorry for that. I thought I’d write a quick post just to let you know what’s going on, because, honestly, I’m terrible as self-promotion, so I tend to just do stuff and […]
National Orgasm Day 46 Facts about orgasms for National Orgasm Day - Well, it’s National Orgasm Day in the US, and I thought we’d help them celebrate by sharing some facts about orgasm.  Just for fun.  Then you can go and celebrate however you wish.
Adult Nursing Relationship Adult Nursing Relationships - I’ve been putting off this post for a long time, but after writing about why men are breast obsessed, it seemed an opportune time to bring it up.  So, today we’re going to talk about Adult Nursing Relationships, also known as ANRs, and more specifically, a husband nursing from his wife. One reason I’ve put it […]
Why are men obsessed with breasts Why are men obsessed with breasts? - This week Christina asked me why I act differently when she’s changing, particularly when she’s topless.  I’m sure most wives at some point wonder, why it is that their husbands are so obsessed with their breasts.  I know for myself, if my wife’s shirt and bra comes off, even if it’s in a non-sexual context, […]

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Anonymous Question Anonymous Question: What do you think about breath play (erotic asphyxiation)? - Here’s another question I received through our Have A Question page for those who have questions but want to ask them anonymously. This is more a question of curiosity.  What do you think about breath play? science, appropriateness etc…

Is it a sin to lust after your wife? - I r received this through our Have A Question page where readers submit anonymous questions: Is it a sin to lust after your wife.  The Bible says to not covet your neighbors wife.   But is it wrong to covet your own wife.   to look longingly at her thighs or ass etc… thanks Kevin Now, I’ve […]
Anonymous Question: Why does my low-drive spouse masturbate? - I received an anonymous email last night: How is it that my husband is the lower drive spouse and yet occasionally masturbates without me? He always regrets it and admits it to me afterwards, yet it still happens about once a month. We have sex less than once a week – maybe 3 times a […]

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