Comments for Sex Within Marriage http://sexwithinmarriage.com Hot and Monogamous, just as God intended Tue, 03 Mar 2015 17:08:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.1 Comment on Wife turned on by naked women by Bradley D. Watson http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/03/wife-turned-on-by-naked-women/#comment-476116 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 17:08:18 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2946#comment-476116 I think topics like this is one of the reasons it is so important for a couple to be able to communicate about their sexuality. The Bible tells us as men to live with our wives with understanding (I Pet. 3:7). If this topic or any other topic is difficult to talk about, that verse becomes impossible.
Thank you Jay for you diligent study on tough topics.

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Comment on Wife turned on by naked women by Erynn Haskins http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/03/wife-turned-on-by-naked-women/#comment-476115 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 17:04:30 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2946#comment-476115 Everything you mentioned makes total sense. I think most women can relate to her feelings and its nice to know that its something that is normal and has a scientific explanation.

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Comment on Wife turned on by naked women by Lori http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/03/wife-turned-on-by-naked-women/#comment-476113 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:46:21 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2946#comment-476113 Thanks Jay Dee for your response; it’s very helpful. “It can be extremely frustrating to be aroused and have no physical response.”. This happens often w my husband and it’s hard for me to understand. He is dealing with ED issues. I’m getting my head aroud not taking it personally.

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Comment on Wife turned on by naked women by Ricky http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/03/wife-turned-on-by-naked-women/#comment-476110 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:39:28 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2946#comment-476110 Women are beautiful creatures. Not surprised at all. It’s a slight double standard though. I can see a guy that is obviously attractive in the eyes of society and note that and my friends (guys) get super uncomfortable lol. I’m super comfortable in my sexuality. I can state a man or a woman is attractive without wanting to have mental or physical sex with them.

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Comment on Birth Control Options for Christians by Narda Mock http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2014/03/birth-control-options-christians/#comment-476109 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:32:44 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=1668#comment-476109 I would urge your husband to have a vasectomy. My son-in-law had one recently. It was an easy 20 minute office procedure. He had it done on a Friday, sat around home with an ice bag all weekend and went back to work on Monday.

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Comment on I’m not getting what I need in my marriage by libl http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/02/im-not-getting-what-i-need-in-my-marriage/#comment-476108 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 16:04:27 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2935#comment-476108 So, I am crazy for asking for oral sex (which my hubby hates, and yes, I am clean and shaved) and his eye rolling and groaning and half baked attempt at it killing my arousal. Yeah….

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Comment on Wife turned on by naked women by libl http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/03/wife-turned-on-by-naked-women/#comment-476107 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 15:57:04 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2946#comment-476107 My hubby can mentally want to have sex with me but physically not want to. I can be the same way, and even reverse: physically desire sex, but mentally no way (usually when mad).

Women turn me on, too, more so than men. Part of it is conditioning…We are taught early on that women are inherently beautiful, sexual, and erotic. Part of it is nature….women are beautiful to look at. Part of it is because I am a woman and can experience the sensuality of my own nudity/sexuality and relate it to or through hers.

My hubby (claims) says he can see a naked woman and not care, say in a movie. I get highly anxious, and often aroused, so I cannot watch movies with sex/nudity. (I think it is wrong to, anyway, whether or not arousal or indifference occurs).

I love large breasts, but am small, myself, so I love looking at large breasts.

I have also fantasized about other women sexually, so while I identify as heterosexual, I believe, without the leading of the Lord in my life, I would have identified as bisexual. But, that is much bigger than just being aroused by nudity in general, male or female.

Exposed nudity, especially in sexually charged situations, is just naturally arousing.

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Comment on Wife turned on by naked women by Keelie Reason http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/03/wife-turned-on-by-naked-women/#comment-476103 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 15:02:42 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2946#comment-476103 To the reader with the question, I too am a woman and feel sexually aroused when I see other naked women. However, it really depends upon the situation. I do not view porn, but you can’t help but see naked women on occasion. I would say that if I’m scrolling through something and I just see a naked woman or a portion of her is naked, I may or may not feel aroused. It really depends on if the situation is sexualized. I was doing a project on Africa a few years ago, and I ran across pictures of African women without shirts on. Didn’t feel at all aroused, and it really didn’t bother me. However, you put a woman in a sexual situation, and I’m going to feel turned on. In movies, most often, a women is getting naked because of some sexual scenario. Maybe not across the board, but by the time you see the woman bare her all, you’ve likely had an emotional connection to the love story, which will cause you to feel more aroused.

Well, that is just how it goes for me. I know it is normal for all women to be aroused by naked women in the right context.

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Comment on Orgasm difficulties survey results by Jay Dee http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/02/orgasm-difficulties-survey-results/#comment-476096 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 14:04:09 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2926#comment-476096 Thanks John for adding that. Yes, sex can still be awesome later in life.

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Comment on Wife turned on by naked women by Jay Dee http://sexwithinmarriage.com/2015/03/wife-turned-on-by-naked-women/#comment-476095 Tue, 03 Mar 2015 14:02:12 +0000 http://sexwithinmarriage.com/?p=2946#comment-476095 No, it doesn’t always. The tie is generally stronger in men, but I doubt it’s always a 1 :1 correlation in anyone. Of course for those with ED, the correlation is even weaker. It can be extremely frustrating to be aroused and have no physical response. And for most of us men, particularly when in our teens, we can have a physical response for seeming no reason, which can be quite embarrassing.
Of course, the most frustrating is when you get an erection for no reason, and then can’t when you have cause.

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