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Hot and Monogamous, just as God intended

Mission Statement

The goal at is to help Christian spouses in two ways: 1) to dispel the stigma often associated with talking about sex within the Christian context, and 2) to use that new freedom to discuss sex within marriage, facilitating positive change in their Christian marriage in order to further glorify God.

About The Writer

Let’s see, what does one need to know?

My wife and I have been married for 14 years and we were both age 20 at our wedding.  We have 5 children, the eldest is 9 years old, and the rest are approximately 2 years apart.  My wife is a stay-at-home mother and home schools our children, and I work as an IT professional.

I’ve been a Christian my entire life, but in the last 12 years or so I have really been pursuing God in my life.  I’m very active in my church, and I’ve even been known to preach sermons on occasion.

I have had a passion for learning my entire life with my two most intensive fields of study being sex and theology.  This blog was originally my attempt to draw both interests into a single point and have a space where I could write about them without reserve.  Along the way I found that I have a real passion to helping people, particularly in marriage and that the sphere of sexuality within marriage still needs a lot of help in the Christian community.

I have no formal education in theology, sexuality, counseling or ministry.  I am not a pastor, an elder, or even a deacon.  I have never been ordained in any position.  I’m just a guy with 14 years of marriage under his belt, who has been both in a sexless marriage and sex-every-night marriage, both with the same wife, and a passion for figuring out why things are the way they are.

I can be reached by email at

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