About Us

Mission Statement

The goal at SexWithinMarriage.com is to help Christian spouses in two ways: 1) to dispel the stigma often associated with talking about sex within the Christian context, and 2) to use that new freedom to discuss sex within marriage, facilitating positive change in their Christian marriage in order to further glorify God.

About The Writer

Let’s see, what does one need to know?

My wife and I have been married for 14 years and we were both age 20 at our wedding.  We have 5 children, the eldest is 9 years old, and the rest are approximately 2 years apart.  My wife is a stay-at-home mother and home schools our children, and I work as an IT professional.

I’ve been a Christian my entire life, but in the last 12 years or so I have really been pursuing God in my life.  I’m very active in my church, and I’ve even been known to preach sermons on occasion.

I have had a passion for learning my entire life with my two most intensive fields of study being sex and theology.  This blog was originally my attempt to draw both interests into a single point and have a space where I could write about them without reserve.  Along the way I found that I have a real passion to helping people, particularly in marriage and that the sphere of sexuality within marriage still needs a lot of help in the Christian community.

I have no formal education in theology, sexuality, counseling or ministry.  I am not a pastor, an elder, or even a deacon.  I have never been ordained in any position.  I’m just a guy with 14 years of marriage under his belt, who has been both in a sexless marriage and sex-every-night marriage, both with the same wife, and a passion for figuring out why things are the way they are.

I can be reached by email at sexwithinmarriage@gmail.com

10 thoughts on “About Us”

  1. Rob says:

    RE: “You’re Turn”

    I love your blog, but want to share some fun grammar help.

    This isn’t spam, and not my site either. It’s just an easy and fun hit list.

    Thanks for all you do. Keep it up!

    1. Jay Dee says:

      Thanks Rob,

      I can’t believe I did that on three posts in a row! I promise, I do know the proper usage. I have no idea what I was thinking. My wife said “That’s not like you!”, because usually I’m the stickler for grammar.

      Thanks for letting me know. Glad you like the blog.

    2. Jay Dee says:

      I should point out, there are 49 posts where I got it right….just saying… no one mentions those…

  2. Caleb Suko says:

    Interesting statement you made about being a Christian all your life. I’m assuming you mean that you believed in Jesus at a young age.

    1. Jay Dee says:

      I mean, I cannot remember a time in my life in which I did not believe in God and was trying to follow (however imperfectly) the teachings of the bible, with a mind for spending eternity with God.

    2. Terri says:

      I wondered that also

  3. Jessica says:

    Hi! I just found your website through Facebook. I’m so happy that I did. We have similar interests in promoting healthy sexuality in Christian marriages.

    Your website is so inspiring and full of great posts. Thanks for your commitment to healthy marriages!


    1. Jay Dee says:

      Hi Jessica!

      That’s very cool, I’m aware of the field of sex therapy, but have never come in contact with a Christian sex therapist. Absolutely fantastic! I hope to see you around the blog-o-sphere.

      1. Jessica says:

        Yes, unfortunately there are not many of us yet. But, every year more and more people are getting involved. These are exciting times for marriage and sexuality!

  4. El Fury says:

    This may be intentional, but your challenges are disappearing from history. For example, this link no longer works:


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